Topic: ????????? about breast cancer and my mom's kidney's both failed?:(

[uniqueandalanis4]

 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( please i need all ur prayer's my mom''s body is falling apart '' shes so scared she almost died last night from kidney failaur '' please 'i'll give her my kidney's can someone tell me what i can do to make my mom live?? i cant looooose her omg '' i know this isnt good '' but can someone help me know about her kidney's failing and is it hard to find a doner??? im sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk kkkk '' i cant lose my momma shes so good and shes only 60 :'( :'( :'( :'( please someone talk to me :'( :'( :'( :'( oh god ddddddddddddddddddd ddddddddddddddddd help her

[uniqueandalanis4]

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[clanaja]

hey, I'm really sorry to hear that, hope ur mom is better now, how is she doing?
I dont know anything bout kidneys faillures, I know a lil bout breast cancer... anyhow If u need someone to talk to feel free to add me to AIM (clanaja) or msn (clanaja@hotmail.com). For sure ur mom, u and your family will be in my prayers, I promise. Be strong cuz ur momi needs u, she needs u to be okay in order for her to get well.

[Mrok(Gloom)Robert M]

I am sorry April I wasn't around yesterday... My internet is getting worse... and yesterday I came back home late... I heard a little about successfull transplantation of part of liver from adult donor to child... but... your mum is in different situation and possibly needs whole liver... Life is short anyway... but all that matters is what good we do while we are here... and your mum doesn't need life without life... and fight without purpose... She needs you around... You ease her pain by talking, listening, caring... and trying to meet her expectations... I don't feel much power to tell you more... My insight into life is changing... I don't want to make mistake and look like cold monster that doesn't care about people feelings... But... hold on to fact that you love her... and you are doing your best... You are not doing anything wrong... and some things must happen... but I don't mean it has to be like tomorrow...

[uniqueandalanis4]

 :'( :'( :'( :'( but it's not just her kidney's'' it's her copd..her lung's and breast cancer? how will she survive all of this.. i have faith but Omg im in so much pain! shes still in the hosptial she cant walk shes so weak she fell down :'( :'( they gave her morphene for pain! i was with her for 3 days in n.j her eyes looking into mine so sadly and scared'' saying april i dont wanna die im scared :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( she's too younge

[Mrok(Gloom)Robert M]

I think I tried to tell you enough... I doubt it work out quite well anyway... Still... Like I said... Do what you can now... try to be patient for surgery result... You are giving your best... Doctors are doing their best... I know its your drama... and its truth I don't feel it whole so I can be calm and beg you to try the same... Hope is gone when you let it go away... but you better give it all time it can last... till nothing is to turn back... Life has to go... its changing... it cant stop in careless, painless moment.. as it shouldn't stop in hole of pain... I know emptiness is somewhere in between... but love is... to fill more than gaps in life... so.. hold on to it... always

[Clint]

         I'm sorry to hear this sad news about your mother. God be with you and your family.

[uniqueandalanis4]

woah th

I think I tried to tell you enough... I doubt it work out quite well anyway... Still... Like I said... Do what you can now... try to be patient for surgery result... You are giving your best... Doctors are doing their best... I know its your drama... and its truth I don't feel it whole so I can be calm and beg you to try the same... Hope is gone when you let it go away... but you better give it all time it can last... till nothing is to turn back... Life has to go... its changing... it cant stop in careless, painless moment.. as it shouldn't stop in hole of pain... I know emptiness is somewhere in between... but love is... to fill more than gaps in life... so.. hold on to it... always

              woah thank all of u for ur prayer's.. and ur thought's'..'!! well my momma was bleeding inside because of her kidneys and she was rushed into sergery it was a life or death sitution i was so scared and my mother never been so scared in her life she said when it come's to death'' u dont wanna die!'' i was there telling her dont give up and when they do the surgery to think possitive before she went under!! and now there taking more test and she had a plate or something put in for her heart because of her kidney's .. woah it's not a good feeling ''thinking ur gonna lose your mother.. shes really strong knowing all the problems she has her lung's cancer and kidneys!woah shes amasing '' i told her im so proud of her god bless her .. i'll let u all know what the out come is '' cause with god and me around my momma isnt going no where:) the only thing is shes gonna have to wear a bag to go to the rest room :'( but i have faith that it wont be forever .. cause shes so sad about it all.. but shes so happy shes alive!!blah blah i keep typing.. shhhh me..!  

[Tj_pinkgurl]

ill be praying april. hope shes ok

[ericb]

I'm very sorry April,i haven't been on for a few days.I ust noticed this tread.Of course you ave my prayers,and so does your mom.I've spoken with her before,so i know first hand what a wonderful woman she is. :'( :'( :'( You both are in m prayers always. :'( :'( :'( :'( I know first hand what you're goig through because i went through it myself. :'( :'( :'( :'(

[kellyyankeefan1]

Awww I'm very sorry about your situation April.  :'(
I hope for the best for both of you

[uniqueandalanis4]

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[Mrok(Gloom)Robert M]

April O.O... Whats going on?...

[uniqueandalanis4]

shes still in the hosptial :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( they rechecked her and she has cancer in her blatter and she lost her hair and there just drugging her up with all this pain medican its making me sick but shes in so much pain :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( she will go to a cancer center to know how to deal with cancer! shes not at the best hospital right now and im looking to transfer her to the best hosptial who can help her as much as they can! if anyone knows the best hospital for her to go to please let me know'' i been looking up cancer of america and other ones too! she's gonna need a bag to use the rest room and a bed in her house cause she cant walk :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( and with all her problems her kidney is bleeding still and she has copd lung cancer ''im so scared so so soooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooo scared '' i am trying to keep up the faith but this is very hard but i have too keep the faith cause if i let go'' she will let go too and i dont want that but i know she has to fight for her life and i really pray they can get her in the best hosptial :smiley8:cause if she stays in the n.j hospital she wont survive this :'( :'( .. she's so sad shes so mad at the world cause she went to many hosptials and they never checked her for what was wrong with her '' her doctor saw how pale she was and she lost sooooooooooo much weight but he just gave her pills so she can eat but she still cant eat.. she is eating a little in the hosptial there giving her percents for pain every half hour and she dont like them but she is so much in pain :'( :'( .. i really wish i could give her my lungs my air.. my kidneys i wish i could take that cancer from her and put it in me '' i would do anything for her  :'( :'( shes my bestest friend and my mother and father .. i need her  :'( :'( :'( :'( is there anyone that knows if cancer treatment of america in philadelphia is the best for her? i was told that houston texas has the best cancer treatment's'' i'll travel with her there .. i'll even go on a talk show for someone to help her with all her pain and depression of feeling like her life is over  :'( :'( i never thought i would be here talking about cancer and my mother struggling for her life.. im so numb all i do is cry yyy i never felt so much pain in my life'' eric im so ooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooo sorry for what u went through my buddy :'( :'( :'( :'( it hurts so muchhhhhhhhhhhhh.. buddy i'll try to get on aim to talk to u but i been really depressed i havnt been online and if i am im trying to look up the best hospital's! i need her shes just 60  :'( :'( :'( :'( she needs a wig and i feel everything she feels and it frikkin hurts like heckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk kkkk! i wont say how i feel cause its just too much to say and my eyes hurt so bad burning from crying day and nite! i pray all day long i listen to the god radio station  :'( :'( it makes me feel a little better knowing god is with my mother and me.. no matter how bad thing's get i know he will never hurt my moma.. but i do lose faith  :'( :'( then i have to rise above it all and think'' BE STRONGGGG!!!!!!!!! .. i really apprecite everyone who been praying for my moma for the last 3 yr's :'( i just need some info on hosptial's and people that went through what shes going through.. please please someone .. i need help i feel like im losing my mind  :'( :'( :'( :'( eric please when u get a chance i'll g o on aim'' i need u buddy '' i need all the prayers in the world.. im so sorry for what she has to go through..i wish it was me '' not her .. im listning to cancer surviver's on the radio.. anything is possible but? all these problems '' lungs ''cancer and kidneys?whats gonna happen is my momma gonna die on me oh no :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( please god please help my moma.. i never asked for anything in life but i need ur powers to heal her  :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

[Mrok(Gloom)Robert M]

So much cancer ....... Its too much.... Hospital better or not... I hope you will find some doctors with talents to treat your mom properly... I heard a bit or even quite much about breakthroughs with research in cancer treatment.. but... types of cancer are many ... and when few are easy to cure... yet some are just making life short... I cant help much... I think I only know that so far they only ease pain and do their best to stop cancer to grow and spread... Its terribly difficult to cure cancer when its on advanced stadium... and when it attacks difficult parts of body (specially those essential to live)... In some way... cancer is a part of body but only malfunctioning and ill part... Some types of cancer are less aggressive and you can live with it inside without any impact on life when other types can kill fast or do a lot of other mess... Its... like you need to know everything about each infected organ to heal it in its own way... and its mostly case of removing and displacing... Human body is still too much complicated to heal it whole.. and medicine is not on a peak of its advancement... and above it all comes cost... This life is just a dust with power that comes and goes... Life seems to be just short part of travel and it must be such thing... Your mom has great faith to stay alive and wait for cure to come... We don't know what will be God decision... We only know what reward we want... and if we are ready for any form of it...