Topic: Jeff Stackhouse (and why he'll always be banned) update 10/15/07

[chicaangel88]

You are so welcome.

[Admin]

Oh my gosh, thank all of you so much for posting this. He talks to me all the time on Twitter, MySpace, and Facebook. I never knew any of this. This scares me so bad, because I've been asked some of the same questions by him. He's asked me when my birthday was and where I live. I told him I was 15 and he was like "oh, in 3 more years you'll be 18." I never really thought anything bad about him saying that, until now. I always felt sorry for him because he always tells me that no one understands him and that he doesn't have many friends. But, seriously, thank you all SO much for posting this. I'm about to block him on MySpace and Twitter, and if anyone knows how to block someone on Facebook, please tell me. I'm really afraid to talk to him now.

you, and everyone else, can report him directly to a child protection agency by emailing whatever you can to bonnie@childonlineprotection.org

[Kaitie]

Dang. Jeff still makes his way into conversations, doesn't he?

Its been over two years since my first message from Jeff and like a lot of girls and women on here I thought, "he's a pretty nice guy".

That abruptly ended right about the time he started talking sexually with me. He didn't ask my real age and I never just out right said it. I'm 22 now so age wouldn't have really mattered then anyway. The fact that he never asked, insinuates that he doesn't care.

I saw first hand the chat that he had with a 15 year old Kelly fan. The fact that he knew her age and didn't refrain from sexual talk made/makes me angry.

Younger and younger kids are gaining access to the net and predators need to be taken seriously.

[Artamous]

hey a return from the dead, you definitely know it first hand and hopefully we can come up with lots. of all of us posting here I think it is u me and alan that were directly involved and I know we would all love it and do everything possible and be proud to help put him away for years

[Kaitie]

dont forget gen.

[kellyvilleFAN931]

Here's the LATEST message on Jeff's facebook. Yes, I am on his friends list, no I will not say who I am, cause I'm only on his list to laugh at his dumb ass! 

"OK so without getting into any detail, or hurting myself or this man, well

there is this guy that runs this kelly clarkson website I was on 5 or 6 years ago

and he has been lying about me and saying mean things to me for all of these years

pretty sure that he in fact does hate me.

The things he said are not good.

So he keeps saying he is going to sue my ass and stuff, and really horrible stuff, so if you could offer your support in this situation and pray or send me well wishes, cool sweet thoughts, I dunno, just whatever to help me get through it.

It's been 6 years of pain for me, but I want to stand up for myself. Every-time I do he says more bad things.

Major vicious cycle.

I have been praying about it and I have prayed for this man a lot.

I am not sure what he wants from me.

If he does sue , I could sue back for everything he said about me that was lies, so I think that is completely bs.

Make sure to tell me if you did pray because I feel that prayers will make a difference.

Maybe there has not been enough focus on prayer.

Maybe I have been focused on how it made me feel and not asking God to purify the situation.

He took away many of my good friends with his lies, so they are gone now, but my wish is that he would stop and be peaceful with me

Jeff"

[Admin]

he's jsut upset because I reported him to MySpace last week and MySpace removed some of his blog entries on the basis of slander, deformation, liability, and harrassment.

We have his blog entries that were removed saved, becuase he's only going to deny he ever posted them, or claim his account was hacked for the 700th time as he always does.

Only hope Jeff has now is to simply shut his yap and move on with his life, which he refuses to do. I personally don't care if he even exists, but if he's going to continue to make up stories and create drama, it will continue to go in files, given to the authroities who are collecting everything on him, and he'll simply learn the hard way.. This isn't a game, he's a serious liability.

There's a reason child protective services are investigating him, and they contacted us, we didn't contact them!

[Artamous]

before long he will bite his own but off.

kaitie I did not forget gen but said only ones posting, I have not seen her post for some time but I know her job has her busy. you and gen need to help me find old chats. His butt will be chopped into pieces and he will be behind bars.

Alan has it right that he needs to let it die otherwise it is just a case of bring on the battle and he will lose yet again

[kylethemalefan]

I know this is kinda off topic but I don't know where else to put this, and yes, this post does defend Jeff a little.  Sure, what he did was wrong and I'm glad hes banned for it, but I think i found out why he did it.  He, like 1.5% of American males, suffers what is known as Love Shyness.  I know this because I am love shy myself.

Freaky thing is, is that a lot of things about Jeff kinda parallel me to a point that I'm scared that I might become him (and if by some chance he is innocent, what we think he is).  I mean, We're both love shy, we both have stalkerish tendencies, we're both easily hurt and sensative (anyone at Penguin Posse knows I'm sensitive, I mean, how many times do I post there saying I'm depressed).  Just looking at what he has done and what hes become, I just sit here and ask myself, "is this what I'm destined to become, an old dateless man who is suspected of being a pedo and asked young girls to show me booty pics?"

I don;t know guys.  I mean, I know the only person who can chose who I become is me, but the coincidences scare me.  I mean, the more I read the evidences Alan has posted the more it sounds like I'm reading about a more creepy version of me.  Do you think I am overreacting?  Do you think that I am becoming him?  Do you think I'm suffering from a sort of Stockholm Syndrome?  I don't know.  Like I said, off topic, but it keeps me up at nights, that and the screwed up reason that last night and today sucked (and if fate is against me, for the next nine months, and no, I didn't get anyone pregnant)

[Admin]

Jeff keeps doing alot of what he does because he doesn't want to be banned on any websites...
He was banned on several before anyone on any KC website knew who he was... kcmb was the first Kc site to ban him, then he joined the fan club, and had to be banned there for legal/liability reasons. He was asked to change his cscreenname (which was kellyclarksonisdabo otyqueen) and refused, he was asked to stop with his sexual inuendo's and refused, complaints came in left and right from members, and their parents about him, fan club had no choice in the matter, Jeff refused to listen.
after that he found kellyville, and was on here 2 months, same thing happened, and we had to ban him.
he started bitching about how the fan club stole his money, in spite of the fan club contact he agree'd to upon membership signup that the fan club reserves the right to deny accessw to anyone, for any or no reason, without refund. (all websites reserve that right by law).
Jeff then used his school computer to have a differant IP and sign up again, when he was caught (he did this on fan club and kellyville), his new accounts were banned. He started ranting about how he was banned again after being let back on. He was never let back on, he simply used a differant system to sneak back on. so now he complains that he was banned more than once, and the fan club stole his money three times.

It's not just Kelly sites either, Jeff himself blogs on his myspace and such how some canadian idol's have banned him, or even blacklisted him. He was banned on Alicia Silverstone, Nellie Fertado, and Avril Lavigne sites before he was ever on any Kelly sites. All for the same reasons. His accounts are still on msot of those sites with his posts that got him banned, anyone can go see them, and the dates are on all of them. This alone goes against Jeff's claims that myself or anyone else 'hacked his accounts', as they were before we ever knew who he was.

It's not about Jeff being a 'stalker' at all, it's simply about his behavior, and how he refuses to lsiten when anyone tells him how to fix his situation which we have done more than a dozen times since 2005. We gave up on him.I had every reason to ban him from Kellyville as soon as he signed up as I was the one who banned him on the fan club before he ever signed up on Kellyville and knew about him already, yet, we waited 2 month's to see if he'd had improved. He didn't, and we got rid of him.

We don't take complaints about other members lightly on here, but that doesn't mean the person being complained about did anything wrong, sometimes it's a misunderstanding. Our normal procedure is to check all posts by the person in question, and give a little time to see how they continue, then we talk to them if possible about the complaints (without mentioning who complained), and take it from there. We've had a total of 10 people banned on this site since 2003. more than half of them had the ban lifted over a period of time. Jeff's will never be lifted as he continues to rant about everything, and make up stories that go against things he said himjself in previous rants. His story of everything that has happened changes frequently. Anytime Myspace or some other social network removes a blog of his, or 'nude picture of kelly made out of asterics' he puts on there, he claims he was hacked and didn't do it, then in the next blog, mentions how he misses the picture he drew.

He's a very unstable person in need of professional help.

Kyle, you're nothing like him.. trust me.. people here like you! and remember. there can be a fine line between obsessed and stalkerish.. I don't think you've crossed that line.. you're just a fan with an obsession, you don't seem to be any danger to anyone

[KrzyMuzikGrl]

Here's the LATEST message on Jeff's facebook. Yes, I am on his friends list, no I will not say who I am, cause I'm only on his list to laugh at his dumb ass! 

"OK so without getting into any detail, or hurting myself or this man, well

there is this guy that runs this kelly clarkson website I was on 5 or 6 years ago

and he has been lying about me and saying mean things to me for all of these years

pretty sure that he in fact does hate me.

The things he said are not good.

So he keeps saying he is going to sue my ass and stuff, and really horrible stuff, so if you could offer your support in this situation and pray or send me well wishes, cool sweet thoughts, I dunno, just whatever to help me get through it.

It's been 6 years of pain for me, but I want to stand up for myself. Every-time I do he says more bad things.

Major vicious cycle.

I have been praying about it and I have prayed for this man a lot.

I am not sure what he wants from me.

If he does sue , I could sue back for everything he said about me that was lies, so I think that is completely bs.

Make sure to tell me if you did pray because I feel that prayers will make a difference.

Maybe there has not been enough focus on prayer.

Maybe I have been focused on how it made me feel and not asking God to purify the situation.

He took away many of my good friends with his lies, so they are gone now, but my wish is that he would stop and be peaceful with me

Jeff"

This really kinda pisses me off as a Christian because he thinks that using God to seem innocent will work and in the act he defiles the name of being a Christian.

Jerk.

[chicaangel88]

Wow. Its been awhile since I read up on it... Will Jeff ever just admit what he really is and get over it?

[sarah8]

I came on here in about 2005 when Jeff was active - also got drawn into his act - till he started sending me weird emails. I am more than old enough that its not a danger to me, but his behaviour scares me for younger people. He added me on Facebook for the umpteenth time the other day. I wonder if he will ever get the hint! the last time I conversed with him was on here in 2005, and it wasn't even that much. Lol - I remember all that drama on here. How on earth does he still remember me and add me all the time, everywhere I seem to go>? I am so glad i live on the opposite side of the earth!

[KellyisAmazing]

hope he doesnt live in canada cuz im heading up there next week!! he needs to be banned from everything possible..including earth!! gave me the chills reading about this butthole

[Admin]

he lives near Vancouver.. which is Canada